Gay life books don’t make cut at local library

By Michael Rovito
Frontiersman
Published on Thursday, October 16, 2008 8:21 PM AKDT

WASILLA — Wasilla Public Library has decided not to shelve two children’s books dealing with homosexuality donated by a gay activist in California.

Michael Petrelis, a 49-year-old from San Francisco, donated the books in September after learning of Gov. Sarah Palin’s question about banning certain books when she was Wasilla’s mayor.

In 1996 Palin asked Wasilla’s librarian how she would feel about banning certain books at the library. While no books were banned, Palin’s question started a brief controversy over censorship at the library.

Palin reportedly took issue with the book “Pastor, I Am Gay,” by local author and now-retired minister Howard Bess.

The censorship story, reported that year in the Mat-Su Valley Frontiersman, largely faded into history until Republican presidential candidate John McCain named Palin as his running mate in August.

The ensuing media attention rehashed the 12-year-old story.

Petrelis, who runs a popular blog dealing with gay and lesbian issues, donated the books “Heather Has Two Mommies” and “Daddy’s Roommate” during Banned Books Week, the American Library Association’s celebration of the freedom to read.

“I said, ‘I’m going to send copies of both books just to make sure they’re on the shelves,’” Petrelis said in a previous interview.

When the books arrived, Library Director KJ Martin-Albright said they would go through an approval process that doesn’t look at content but focuses more on durability and appeal, and determines whether there is enough space, among other factors.

Petrelis’ donated books failed the test, Martin-Albright said.

“Anything on the library has to earn its real estate,” she said Wednesday.

The Wasilla library does have children’s books dealing with homosexuality, including one title, “And Tango Makes Three,” about two male penguins raising an egg together.

Martin-Albright said the titles Petrelis donated failed to make it on library shelves because they are poorly constructed, lacked engaging illustrations and seemed to lack the ability to engage young readers. The books also appeared unable to stand repeated use, and would have likely fallen apart eventually.

“It really doesn’t have anything to do with the content or lack of content,” Martin-Albright said.

The donated books will go to Friends of Wasilla Library, to be sold during a future book sale. The money generated from those books sales goes to funding projects at the library.

On Wednesday, Petrelis said he’s not disappointed the books didn’t make it onto the shelves. He’s just happy they will eventually support the library somehow.

“I’m hoping that part of my point is to say as a gay man, ‘I support public libraries,’” Petrelis said.

Petrelis also recently donated male and female contraceptives to Wasilla High School, Palin’s alma mater.

Palin advocates for abstinence-only education.

He said he had a “man-to-man” conversation with Wasilla High Principal Dwight Probasco about sex education issues and what he’s up against as an educator.

On Thursday, Probasco said he hasn’t done anything with the contraceptives and isn’t sure what will happen to them.

“I told him [Petrelis] if it was his intent to be able to visualize me standing by the front door handing out condoms, that’s not going to happen,” Probasco said.

For Petrelis, no matter what happens to the items he has donated to the Wasilla library and high school, he said he’s really wants to promote the value of those institutions

“I believe in strong schools and strong libraries,” he said.

Contact Michael Rovito at michael.rovito@frontiersman.com or 352-2252.

Comments

18 comment(s)

    MAXKATT from NY wrote on Oct 28, 2008 6:13 AM:

    " KG...Fairly good point. Certain Leads and Veeps can, and do, disagree on certain points. Amending the constitution, however, is a pretty big matter. My bet is McCain aids would rather her not push this issue to that level, lest they risk more completely alienating any alternative lifestylers. I do note she hasn't reitterated this stance as far as I know. But good point. "

    KG wrote on Oct 27, 2008 4:52 PM:

    " Maxkatt, why do John and Sarah have to "get their story straight"? They admittingly don't agree on everything. Wow, independent thinkers. "

    MAXKATT from NY wrote on Oct 24, 2008 7:13 AM:

    " "Library director in Illinois " & "ellie" glad to see professional librarians are keeping a tab on this important issue. Thanks. I have always had great love and respect for librarians...the people with so much power and information at their fingertips. Glad to see concern that it be used wisely. "

    ellie wrote on Oct 23, 2008 1:38 PM:

    " thanks to Mr. Petrelis for donating these books and testing the system's ability to serve all its students. As a librarian I appreciate what he is doing, and as a patriotic American I appreciate what he is doing. I wish that those two books could have gone on the shelves at the library. "

    Really.... Really wrote on Oct 23, 2008 12:49 PM:

    " Wait, wait... "And Tango Makes Three" is a book about being gay? So if my wife dies and one of my guy friends helps me out with the kid, then I'm gay? Geez! I'm never helping anyone out again.

    Anyway, relax everyone, you can't catch "gay" from a book and your kids aren't going to get gay because of a couple books in a library. There's no "agenda" there's no conspiracy. Everythings fine, calm down. "

    Library director in Illinois wrote on Oct 23, 2008 8:13 AM:

    " I am impressed with the gracious thoughtfulness of Mr. Petrelis, who supports libraries and schools with donations but does not dictate how his donations will be used. Wasilla is lucky to receive unrestricted gifts from an evidently dispassionate and generous man. How the school and library deal with those gifts should provoke more comment than the giver. Let's not kill the messenger but discuss the message. "

    Dr. T wrote on Oct 23, 2008 5:48 AM:

    " I don't think the guy has a fetish. I think he's making a point that abstinence-only education doesn't work. Point in case: Bristol Palin. "

    growup wrote on Oct 22, 2008 1:20 PM:

    " Good point MAXKATT. I guess my point is that I am not gay and I don't jugde anyone who is. I would assume that from the titles using the words mommies and daddys, the book would be for younger children. I really hope that no child needs a book on any relationships instead they can learn what love is from their parents, regardless if the parents are gay or straight. We don't need Mr.petrelis sending the libraries books or the schools condoms. It sounds like he has a slight fetish about kids and sexual material! "

    MAXKATT from NY wrote on Oct 22, 2008 12:00 PM:

    " Grow up...Good post. I can understand you & your wife not taking your kid there. The books, however, could be helpful to a kid who may be adopted by a gay couple, the child of a parent who get's divorced & discovers 1 of their parents is gay, a kid who's parents are straight, but has a gay couple living next door. I'm sure the books are a resource in this vein. If they were for really young children, I doubt they were instruction manuals on "how 2 be gay", but rather how to understand it. "

    Grow up wrote on Oct 21, 2008 10:19 AM:

    " Get real "lJ". If my child comes to me and says they are gay I will love them and except them. I will not however say hey honey let's run to the library and get a gay picture book. By the time my child knows If he or she is gay they won't need a book with pictures. Maybe that is why you are upset because you do need a gay book with pictures. Well better luck next time. These picture books didn't make the cut. So you "grow up" and read a big kid book! "

    L.J wrote on Oct 20, 2008 9:23 AM:

    " Petrelis his utilizing his right to publish a written work! For you people to judge him for mainly writing about issues important today is wrong and unjustified! Those books aren't telling kids to go out and participate in 'homosexual' activity....they are just books that address current situations. What are you people going to do when ur child tells you "mommy/daddy im gay" are you going to ban and oust them too?? You people need to suck it up and deal with the fact that homosexuality is becoming more common and accepted and theres nothing you can do about it...Growup! "

    MAXKATT from NY wrote on Oct 20, 2008 6:04 AM:

    " While we're on the subject of books, looks like John and Sarah need to get their "story" straight...CNN="Add one more policy item to the list of things John McCain and Sarah Palin disagree on. Palin told CBN’s David Brody over the weekend that she supports a constitutional amendment banning gay marriage, a proposal John McCain voted against in 2004. McCain believes the matter should be left to the states." "

    greg wrote on Oct 18, 2008 11:14 AM:

    " Keep your "books" in Ca.. Common sense tells most of us that 'acts' between two 'males' cannot produce offspring, so why does a 49 y.o. liberal pervert (yeah, I said it!) think that its his right to influence OUR CHILDREN here in the valley? Many better than him sacrificed all to provide him with his rights. Their left-leaning followers have provided him with this B.S. politicaly correct atmosphere of acceptance of diversity. Look where that is taking us. Get involved.....its OK to say NO "

    amom wrote on Oct 17, 2008 9:49 PM:

    " Thanks Mr. Patrelis for being great advocate in our community! "There's more to doing good than hating evil." "

    Sarah wrote on Oct 17, 2008 10:25 AM:

    " Is it just me or does this Michael Petrelis sound like a pervert. He is way too excited about kids having sex and reading about it. And why is he so focused on the valley. Mind your own business and keep your filth in San Francisco. "

    How dare you little town wrote on Oct 17, 2008 8:08 AM:

    " We have an agenda here in San Fran and we think the world had better get on our rainbow colored board or else we will call you ignorant, intolerant and homophobic! This is a new, enlightened and fresh perspective that we just came up with! The fact that your small little town isn't buying our hate speech galls us to no end! We will call our brothers in the media and lambast you now! Be afraid little town, be very afraid! Go Obama '08! He IS the messiah - you will learn little town, you will learn! "

    MAXKATT from NY wrote on Oct 17, 2008 6:39 AM:

    " I will have to get a copy of “And Tango Makes Three” at Borders this weekend now that I know how durable it is. If nothing else, it sounds like it would make a wonderful coaster. Hmmmmm...high school principal with box load of contraceptive equipment he's unsure what to do with...Ebay like the jet? "

    jilly wrote on Oct 16, 2008 9:00 PM:

    " What a weirdo! "

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