Sharday’s legacy of life

By Michael Rovito
Frontiersman
Published on Sunday, December 28, 2008 2:16 PM AKST

PALMER — Five years after she died in a tragic automobile accident, Sharday Badillo is still giving back.

She’s helping 48 people live a better life — from a 6-year-old boy to a 65-year-old woman — and 46 people in between.

For years, only those 48 people and a handful more knew of Sharday’s contributions. In a couple weeks, thousands more will find out.

MICHAEL ROVITO/Frontiersman Sherry Moreno holds the picture of her daughter, Sharday Badillo, who will be recognized during the Rose Bowl Parade for donating her tissue after dying in a car accident in 2003.

On Jan. 1, Sharday’s name will glide past thousands along a parade route and millions watching on television during the Rose Bowl Parade in Pasadena, Calif. The Stars of Life float, in its sixth year, recognizes donors who have made a difference for others.

Sharday’s mother, Sherry Moreno, will be on the float as well, riding along in remembrance of a daughter that gave her so much inspiration in life, and continues to do so years after her death.

On Wednesday, Moreno, her eyes wet with tears, recounted the journey she’s taken since that day in November 2003.

Sharday, who was a senior at Colony High School, was on Trunk Road Nov. 23, 2003, when the Ford Ranger she was driving apparently slid out of control and struck a tree.

Sharday died at the scene of the crash. She was 17.

Shortly after, Moreno decided Sharday would be a tissue donor, allowing medical experts to transplant her skin, tissue, bones and heart valve to recipients desperate for medical intervention.

By doing so, Sharday has helped patients across the country deal with and heal from their medical crises.

“My daughter’s made a tremendous impact,” Moreno said.

The years since Sharday’s death have been an emotional roller coaster for Moreno. Some days she does better than others, but there are times when the pain of losing her daughter is almost too much to bear.

Like many grieving parents, out-living her child has pained Moreno. But she takes solace in knowing even after her daughter’s death, Sharday has continued to do exactly what she did while she was alive.

“She just had so much unconditional love,” Moreno said. “She lived pretty passionately. I know that Sharday is still out there, and she is still helping people.”

When Moreno goes to California for the New Year’s Day parade, she’ll be the first Alaskan to ride the Stars of Life float.

The float features 36 gold stars with floragraphs — pictures of donors created with floral materials — showing donors who have affected lives with their charity.

Family members of the donors, transplant recipients and living donors ride on the float. What’s more, family members of the donors create the floragraphs themselves, something Moreno just completed.

Using Sharday’s senior picture, Moreno transposed it on a piece of plywood, then filled the picture with organic materials to color it in.

“It’s just breathtaking,” Moreno said.

Next comes riding with her daughter’s picture along with others who’ve touched the lives of many.

“I’m very humbled by the experience,” Moreno said.

Moreno also has a message for families, urging them to discuss the topic of tissue or organ donation long before any decision must be made. With everyone on the same page, it’s easier on the family to carry out their loved one’s wishes, Moreno said.

With Sharday, Moreno had no idea until weeks later that her daughter had already thought about donating.

While going through her room one afternoon, Moreno came upon a cup on the windowsill of Sharday’s room. Inside the cup, between a bundle of cards, was an organ donor card, completely filled out by Sharday.

After seeing that, Moreno said she knew she made the right decision to donate her daughter’s tissue.

The card, and the decision it represented, became just one more reason Moreno said she so admires her daughter.

“She taught me a lot,” Moreno said. “I was blessed I had her for 17 years.”

Contact Michael Rovito at michael.rovito@frontiersman.com or 352-2252.

Comments

9 comment(s)

    Dave wrote on Jan 2, 2009 9:24 AM:

    " LIFE ALASKA holds a meeting the first Tuesday of every month(except this month) 1:30-3:00 pm for anyone interested in transplant issues.It is located at the Ancorage midtown Dennys on Denali Street near the Sears Mall. I have found it very worthwhile and informative. "

    Dave wrote on Jan 2, 2009 9:11 AM:

    " Continued-I got my chance at life because I had insurance but the uncaring attitude of the medical establishment left me cold. I saw people such as myself born American who worked hard die because of no insurance while those embedded on public assistance were given life(and I thank God they did live).When you are dying you take help where you can get it. We need a level playing field for the uninsured working middle class. With the losses the PFD took in 2008 we could have built our own Transplant Center here ten times over. "

    Dave wrote on Jan 2, 2009 8:49 AM:

    " I agree with Medical Inst. Sucks. When I was under consideration for my transplant the University of Washington Medical Center made it clear that three criteria be met. 1-Ability to pay(insurance,cash or welfare) 2- Be basically healthy outside of transplant need 3- Have at least one reliable caregiver pre and post transplant. Strong emphasis was ability to pay,without that the thinly veiled message was "go off and die". The social worker crassly suggested we hold "bke sales" but offered no true help.I had worked hard my whole life and was pretty broke but survived because of insurance. "

    Medical Inst. Sucks wrote on Jan 1, 2009 3:04 PM:

    " This story helped me change my mind for myself, I think I will fill that out.
    On another note, to bad medical institutions & insurance arent so generous, with the millions of research dollars donated and thru taxes, they continue to kick people while they are down, and only giving to the ones who can afford it, or wiping out a life savings. Medical practice in US disgusts me. I bet they charge for those organs.... "

    Dave wrote on Dec 30, 2008 9:04 AM:

    " I believe tissue and organ donors along with their families have a special place in Heaven. The gift they give is so very special and changes many lives. I know this to be true as I am a liver transplant recipient of almost five years. I was very near death in February 2004 when I got my my transplant and often ponder why I lived and a young lady named Andrea died tragically at so young an age. I understand the loss Sherry and other donor families edure and I thank and pray for you all. PLEASE SUPPORT ORGAN DONATION. "

    Vicki Ashley wrote on Dec 30, 2008 8:09 AM:

    " Sherry & Brittany, just know that you will be in our thoughts and prayers. We can just imagine the many different emotions you have had and will have through this. We are so proud of you both! We wish you a safe trip! "

    Linda wrote on Dec 29, 2008 1:10 PM:

    " As always Sherry, your strength amazes me! God Bless you and Brit and have safe trip and please know that my prayers are always with you! Linda K "

    Jenn wrote on Dec 29, 2008 3:05 AM:

    " Sharday is thought of often and missed so much. Everytime I remember those summer days playing with the girls, I wish she were still here. Sherry, your strength amazes me most days and I appreciate it every time I see you or Brit. Have a great trip and hope to catch up with you when you get home!! Jenn B. "

    Kelly wrote on Dec 28, 2008 7:15 PM:

    " Thank you, Sherry, for donating the remains of your precious daughter to help all those people. You must be an amazing lady and I appreciate you. May your daughter rest in peace and live forever in your heart. "

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