Ewing recounts son’s death

BY ANDREW WELLNER
Frontiersman
Published on Saturday, September 5, 2009 8:16 PM AKDT

WASILLA — After his son was killed in what appeared to have been a botched marijuana robbery, Assemblyman Mark Ewing said he hopes some good can come of the whole saga.

His son, Jeremy Ewing, 34, was diagnosed recently with paranoid schizophrenia. Alaska, and the Valley in particular, is woefully lacking in resources for the homeless mentally ill, Ewing said.

“I’ve talked to the (Wasilla) mayor, he’s on some kind of committee for the homeless,” he said. “We’re actively looking for a place now where people can not be turned away.”

Jeremy Ewing was shot and killed the morning of Aug. 29, Ewing said. He got the news shortly after when Wasilla Mayor, Verne Rupright, having heard about the case from Wasilla’s police chief, came by to break the news.

“I was glad he did because Verne and I are close,” Ewing said. He said he has since learned bits and pieces about what happened.

Alaska State Troopers are investigating the case but did not return calls for comment as of press time.

“My son had no weapons on him, just a roll of duct tape and the intent wasn’t to hurt anybody, the intent was just to steal some marijuana,” Ewing said, adding, the shooter, “shot my son in the face.”

Ewing said his son had recently been in jail on vehicle theft and drunken driving charges. His father said he wasn’t excusing Jeremy’s actions. “What he did was wrong. He paid for it with his life.”

He said his son’s mental illness hadn’t been diagnosed until his most recent stint in jail, when his family was finally able to get him to see a psychiatrist.

“We always thought he was just a free spirit,” Ewing said, recounting the story of his son moving to Hawaii.

The family had gone to Kauai for a vacation.

“When we got ready to leave Jeremy says, ‘I’m going to stay,’” Ewing said. “He stayed and he’d live on the beach and he learned how to surf.”

Once his son was back in Alaska, he had trouble holding down a job, spent most of his days crashing with friends or living outside. Ewing said one time his son almost froze to death sleeping in a Dumpster behind Carrs in Wasilla, instead of asking his dad for a place to sleep.

“I’m two blocks from Carrs,” he said. “I wouldn’t turn anybody away, especially not my son, into the freezing cold.”

His son was into martial arts and also Renaissance-faire-style historical re-enactment. He had also briefly lived in San Diego and told the family he’d been offered a part in “Pirates of the Caribbean 2.”

He could do every sound from the movie Star Trek,” he said. “He could do varied dialects like you wouldn’t believe. He was a natural actor.”

The details of the robbery are sketchy, but Ewing said it happened at 9 a.m. Aug. 29 when his son broke into a house that appeared to have contained a marijuana grow.

There were other people involved, probably people his son met in prison, Ewing said, didn’t want get too far into the details, fearing he might compromise an ongoing trooper investigation.

He said troopers have done a bang-up job thus far. One of them, Sgt. Michelyn Grigg, he said joked with him that she was putting in so many hours she needed some help with childcare.

“One night she asked me if I could baby-sit her kid. They were going to work all night. I said, ‘No problem, bring him over.’”

Ewing didn’t end up baby-sitting.

He said such a crime was completely out of the ordinary for his son.

“We’d leave our wallets laying around the house, money, and he never touched it,” Ewing said. “He found a purse in the parking lot of one of the grocery stores, never even opened it up. He just brought it in and handed it to management,” he said.

The drunken driving and vehicle theft charges were also out of the ordinary. Ewing said that his son’s attorney was trying to work out a deal that included sending Jeremy to Akeela House in Anchorage for treatment. But his son, probably acting on bad advice from his fellow inmates, instead decided to plead to the charges and get out.

Ewing said he last saw Jeremy two weeks before his death.

“I gave him a hug and I said you be careful and I said I love you.”

He hopes that maybe Jeremy’s death will shed some light on an issue that needs to be addressed, noting that the only major statewide mental institution — the Alaska Psychiatric Institute — hasn’t expanded in years.

“Jeremy may have been the lightening bolt that will wake this community up,” Ewing said.

But even before he gets started working on that issue, Ewing said some good has already come from Jeremy’s death.

“It’s already helped people. I had a friend of mine who hadn’t talked to his sister in 24 and a half years, and he called here crying,” Ewing said. “He says, ‘Mark, guess what, I called (my sister) and we’re going to meet for coffee.’”

Contact Andrew Wellner at andrew.wellner@frontiersman.com or 352-2270.

Comments

28 comment(s)

    Thought wrote on Sep 11, 2009 6:32 PM:

    " Toy people are worried about a little pot! come one he wasn't protecting his pot he was protecting his own life. any one of you know that if someone showed up at your place that you would shoot to cause you maybe be the one going to get shot your self. so would you rather get your life taken or someone else. we all think of our selves when it comes to that point. "

    Kallen wrote on Sep 8, 2009 10:29 PM:

    " Mark & Cam I just want you all to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Especially as you move forward in your life now.

    Jeremy did always have a smile on his face every time I saw him.

    All the Ewings are wonderful people! Thank you all for being a part of my life!

    Alyssa...you go girl

    Kallen "

    carolynn wrote on Sep 7, 2009 2:10 PM:

    " I'm so very sorry, Mark. I remember Jeremy from years ago in judo class. He was a wonderful young man, a very sweet soul. I'm proud of you for trying to make some good of this horrible incident. My thoughts are with you and your family. "

    AND wrote on Sep 7, 2009 10:57 AM:

    " It is NOT illegal to grow for personal use in Alaska, jackalope!


    Our CONSTITUTION in Alaska protects us.

    Hello, Ravin?

    Some people. "

    Get it Right wrote on Sep 7, 2009 12:22 AM:

    " Do you really think that the Feds are going to get involved? Yes Federal Law supersedes Alaska Law, but they won‘t interfere in this. How many dope grows do you think the Mat-Su Narcs bust with guns? Do the Feds take those…no! Just because you have a dope grow in your house, doesn’t mean you give up your right to protect yourself. I remember a pastor a while back that shot two intruders in an unoccupied church. He was charged and then later found not guilty. The most he is going to see are charges of MICS IV. "

    Get it Right needs a Federal Law book. wrote on Sep 6, 2009 10:55 AM:

    " Why don't you try reading the Federal laws that supercede Alaska State Law when you mix a dope grow with protecting it with a gun...20 Years, Do your homework, you most likely have a grow in your home right now. Shoot away another dope dealer off the street "

    my name is jeff hewitt wrote on Sep 6, 2009 8:13 AM:

    " and if you break into my home prepare for the consequences.

    i will protect what is mine with whatever force i deem necessaery at that moment.

    i am american.

    jef hewitt, wasilla alaska "

    Nancy Sult wrote on Sep 6, 2009 7:27 AM:

    " Sign me up Mark! The powers that be dont understand what it is like to be homeless or to have a mental disorder. There is no help out here. We watch them drive by on their bikes, or hitchhiking with no where to go. You have helped me many times. Put me on the list and I will stand beside you. I faced homelessness and you voted to save my house. The cities and the borough must stand up and use the money they get for good things that help people instead of hurting people with laws than condemn them. "

    Alyssa wrote on Sep 6, 2009 2:02 AM:

    " The sad thing is the people who say rude&uncalled for things can't even man up&use their own REAL names.If you really can say something rude about a grieving family's family member,you have no heart.The Ewing family are amazing people.We cannot control the challenges given to us.Jeremy didnt ask to be given schizophrenia,yet he didn't ask to be shot either.Yes we have a right to protect our property but yet if you hold a gun to someones head they aren't going to move.Which gives you enough time to have someone call the cops.Stop being hurtful, grow up. Be nice. "

    Get it Right 5 wrote on Sep 5, 2009 4:22 PM:

    " He was robbing them and they used deadly force.  They were justified under Alaska Law.  Done DEAL.  You don't want to be shot, don't do a home evasion robbery.  Simple as that! "

    Get it Right 4 wrote on Sep 5, 2009 4:19 PM:

    " (2) a peace officer acting within the scope and authority of the officer's employment or a person assisting a peace officer under AS 11.81.380; (3) in a building where the person works in the ordinary course of the person's employment; or (4) protecting a child or a member of the person's household.  "

    Get it Right 3 wrote on Sep 5, 2009 4:18 PM:

    " (b) A person may not use deadly force under this section if the person knows that, with complete personal safety and with complete safety as to others being defended, the person can avoid the necessity of using deadly force by leaving the area of the encounter,, except there is no duty to leave the area if the person is
    (1) on premises
    (A) that the person owns or leases;
    (B) where the person resides, temporarily or permanently; or
    (C) as a guest or express or implied agent of the owner, lessor, or resident; "

    Get it Right 2 wrote on Sep 5, 2009 4:15 PM:

    " (3) kidnapping, except for what is described as custodial interference in the first degree in AS 11.41.320;
    (4) sexual assault in the first degree;
    (5) sexual assault in the second degree;
    (6) sexual abuse of a minor in the first degree; or
    (7) robbery in any degree. "

    Get it Right 1 wrote on Sep 5, 2009 4:14 PM:

    " Here is what Alaska Law says is justification for the use of deadly force.

    AS 11.81.335. Justification: Use of Deadly Force in Defense of Self.
    (a) Except as provided in (b) of this section, a person who is justified in using nondeadly force in self-defense under AS 11.81.330 may use deadly force in self-defense upon another person when and to the extent the person reasonably believes the use of deadly force is necessary for self-defense against
    (1) death;
    (2) serious physical injury; "

    Fairview Loop Family wrote on Sep 5, 2009 9:59 AM:

    " To the Ewing family, we are so sorry for your loss... You are in our prayers. "

    TTOSBT wrote on Sep 5, 2009 9:40 AM:

    " It amazes me how some people will judge and write off a life or event based on one news article before any investigation or facts of the event have been released. Our society suffers from a lack of critical thinking, which unfortunately can result in a mob mentality. My condolences to the Ewing family. It is past time for homeless shelters and more mental health services in the valley. They are needed not only for men, but also women, young adults and families. Lets make a better community for all of us. "

    not true wrote on Sep 5, 2009 8:32 AM:

    " threshold laws state that if you feel threatned inside your house with no escape, you can use whatever force necessary to defend yourself and your property.

    he may have thought the roll of duct tape was a weapon.

    get the facts.

    furthermore, if he is charged he will show the criminals past assault with a deadly weapon conviction as proof of intent.

    regardless if he was unarmed.

    get the facts.

    protect your rights and property. "

    wait and see wrote on Sep 5, 2009 12:39 AM:

    " Don't go assuming we know all the details yet. This is much more complicated than it seems. We really don't know who the gun belonged to as of yet. "

    try reading the law wrote on Sep 4, 2009 9:31 PM:

    " The law permits use of deadly force if you are in fear of your life or in fear of harm. Someone breaks in my house I assume they are there to do harm. "

    Oops wrote on Sep 4, 2009 7:44 PM:

    " Home invasion robbery - he was threatening to this resident, it's sad but it also wasn't a crime to shot him. He was a grown man and he was a criminal. This would have been what strike 2 or 3.
    Doesn't matter that he didn't have a gun if he was a threat he was in the wrong place at the wrong time. He was committing a crime. "

    Pure justice wrote on Sep 4, 2009 6:07 PM:

    " It's very difficult to determine who's mentally ill and who's not when you're confronted in your own home with an aggressive intruder no matter what his intent was. I would have reacted the same way regardless of the alleged pot grow.
    Any responsible homeowner has a constitutional right in this state to defend his property and or family no matter what the circumstances are.
    If the investigation determines the alleged grower was over his personal use limit then the most serious punishment should be limited to that charge.
    Justice served. "

    To TerryS wrote on Sep 4, 2009 5:53 PM:

    " That may be true in your opinion, but in the opinion of the LAW deadly force is excusable when you have any reason to think the person intends to harm/kill you. A person breaking down my down in the morning with a roll of duct tape does not sound like any religious visitor I have met and I would assume they had something more sinister in their pocket or belt line and I don't want to wait and ask. If he charged the homeowner, how can you justify "Naw, you can't kill him unless he kills you first?" "

    A family friend wrote on Sep 4, 2009 5:19 PM:

    " This is so sad. Jeremy Ewing was much more than the circumstances of his illness, recent actions, and death.
    I first met Jeremy years ago, before he was ill. He was sweet, caring, and always smiling. He was creative and bright, and I was always impressed by his openness and gentle demeanor. I will choose to always remember him that way.
    Mental illness touches not only the least of us, but also the best of us, and our families. My sympathies to the Ewing family and to everyone who has been touched by this, or a similar tragedy. "

    TerryS wrote on Sep 4, 2009 4:39 PM:

    " Breaking into someoneone's house does not justify using deadly force. The shooter will likely be charged with murder or manslaughter. Shooting someone is only justified if the intruder attacks the resident with a weapon. "

    English anyone wrote on Sep 4, 2009 2:49 PM:

    " Whoever wrote this article needs to take some classes in proper English.

    We do appreciate the information, no matter how *Unedumicated* it sounds. "

    Thieves beware wrote on Sep 4, 2009 2:45 PM:

    " Break into houses, get shot dead.

    It's that simple. "

    Unknown wrote on Sep 4, 2009 2:07 PM:

    " It does not matter what his intent was. He broke into another persons house and got what he deserved. "

    jared hamlin wrote on Sep 4, 2009 1:58 PM:

    " My heart goes out to the Ewing family. I hope through god's love you will find your way through this tragic event. I understand the hopelessness of trying to care for an adult who has a mental illness. My brother-in-law is diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia. Just like you, every day we hope not to here the news that something has happened and we will be attending his funeral. Please move forward with your ideas of creating housing and services in the valley for those who need them so much. "

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