Because I Live, You will Live Also

While people celebrate many holidays, Christians primarily focus on the two main days in the life of Jesus, Christmas and Easter, the commemoration of Jesus’ birth and the celebration of His rising from the dead. So, for Easter, after the extra worship services, the beautiful music, the well written and proclaimed sermons, and the family gatherings . . . then what?? Could it be that we remember the life of Jesus in our worship, but it doesn’t translate into our everyday lives?

On Easter 2023, my wife and I celebrated Easter like many others, but then we added one more celebration. After inspiring worship, a tasty Easter breakfast, and a joy-filled family gathering, Kathy and I went to the graves of my parents. My mom died on January 17, 2011. My dad passed away 7 ½ years later, on August 25, 2018. I was present at the death of both of my parents. After all the rest of our Easter activities, Kathy and I brought new flowers to the graves of my parents, and we took a picture. I probably cannot do this every year. Though, who knows? But, to me, placing those flowers was one of the most meaningful and appropriate activities for Easter Sunday.

First of all, though the bones of Elizabeth Rockey and Robert Rockey are in the ground at the Forest Meadows Cemetery in Gainesville, FL, my parents are alive today in heaven. I believe the words of Jesus are true. Jesus instructed His disciples on Maundy Thursday evening, “ . . . Because I live, you also will live.” (John 14:19 b) Jesus comforted and perhaps surprised the thief on the cross next to Him, “Truly I say to you, today you will be with me in paradise.” (Luke 23:43) Because Jesus lives, I am convinced my parents are with Jesus in paradise. The Easter resurrection of Jesus has power for those I love.

Therefore, even though Easter Day is now past, Jesus’ resurrection blesses my life today. In March I returned to Alaska for a short visit to conduct the funeral services for Katie Vasilie McLeod. I have been friends with Katie’s family for about 30 years, and I heard Katie’s son, Fred, share, “Yes, I miss my mom. But I know that she believed in Jesus, and that Jesus died and rose for her. She is in heaven. I wouldn’t wish it any other way. I just hope and plan to join her some day.” In the midst of Fred’s grief, he found comfort and strength that his mom is with her Lord. By placing those flowers on my mom and dad’s grave, I lived in that comfort too.

Also, in a world that is so troubled, the fact that Jesus promises that “ . . . Because I live, you also will live” gives me hope during my worries, and gives me strength to press on when I can feel, because of the evil in our world, that I am accomplishing nothing good. I trust Jesus with my future. “ . . . Because I live, you also will live.” I find strength from Jesus for today. “ . . . Because I live, you also will live.” Easter is not just a once a year blowout party. The Easter resurrection of Jesus is God’s gift to face all the pain and the suffering in this world, and to come out on the other side, victorious in the forgiving death and the saving resurrection of my Lord.

We may forget that there is a reason the Christian Church celebrates Easter for seven Sundays, and a reason that we worship each week on a Sunday as a mini-resurrection day. Jesus’ Easter rising is the event which has changed our lives today, and saves us for tomorrow.

I’m not sure if my children will have the opportunity, or the desire, to someday place flowers on my grave on Easter Day. To me, what Kathy and I did this Easter was an opportunity to look Satan and Death in the face, to spit in their eyes, and to celebrate the victory of Jesus for Mom and Dad. May Jesus’ resurrection have continuing blessings for your life!