Emphasize cyber security to children, teens using Internet

According to The Pew Research Center, 95 percent of teens use the Internet. As a parent, it is important to remain educated on the threats existent online and use available tools to ensure a safer experience for your child.

Cyber bullying, virtual worlds, and the sharing of private information are three significant hazards to the safety of your child. The ability to hide behind a fake persona has fostered an atmosphere in which harassment is more common. Situations involving cyber bullying can be exacerbated by publicity and permanency not usually associated with traditional bullying. In some situations, these incidents have escalated to tragic levels. Another hazard is age-inappropriate virtual worlds. These can be extensive environments for gaming and socialization. Some of these worlds are intended for adults and highlight vulgar behavior and sexual content; these worlds may not align with your values or may be unsuited for your child’s age. Finally, with nearly any online presence comes the risk of exposing private information. Children and teens are particularly naïve with such information.

There are several actions you can take and tools to use to offer a safer experience. The first step is to talk to your child about going online; find out where they are going, and how they are getting there. The Federal Trade Commission recommends discussing inappropriate conduct, contact, and content with your child. Helping your child understand that they cannot take back what is posted online can increase their wariness. Knowing where your child goes when they are online and visiting the same places they go can give you more awareness of the experiences your child is having on the Internet. Additionally, numerous tools and resources exist to assist parents with online safety. Most Internet providers give free parental controls to their customers, be sure to enquire what tools are available to you. The FTC (www.consumer.ftc.gov), Department of Health and Human Services (www.stopbullying.gov), and Department of Homeland Security (www.dhs.gov/stopthinkconnect-toolkit) each host their own web pages for parents concerned about online safety, with free discussion points, tutorials, and information. Using available resources and engaging in open dialogue with your son or daughter can go a long way in providing a safer experience for your child online.